Husband vs Wife

1/17/2012

My wife and I were having a financial debate and we both thought it would be nice to hear your opinion and thoughts about the matter. I am going to set up her side as well as my side in a very objective and non judgmental way so that you can give us your fully informed and unbiased judgement. Here is the case.

My wife wants to buy a cheap, flimsy, plain looking black colored turtleneck for the incredible amount of $47.

Her Unbiased Denfense
She says she wants to buy a Michael Stars' beautiful black fitted turtleneck in a classic shine fabric because it's a must-have item for every woman. It's perfect for layering or to wear on its own and it only costs an affordable $47.

My Unbiased Denfense
I know for a fact that discount department store Conway is selling $5 neon pink or turquoises colored turtlenecks for their winter clearance sale. That means she can buy 8 (4 pink and 4 turquoise) turtlenecks which will last her for more than a week. And, she will be able to walk away with $7 to grab herself a couple of slices of pizza and a diet soda. Or, if she were a little more thoughtful about her loving husband (me) she could buy 1 turquoise colored turtleneck and use the remaining $42 on me.

Here are some things she could buy me.
1. Superman caped pint glass - $9.95
2. Buttered popcorn jelly beans - $4.95
3. Star Wars talking key chain - $8.95
4. Cock blocker bottle stopper - $7.95
and
5. The I will drink you bitches under the table t shirt - $9.95

Total cost $41.75... which is still .25 cheaper than buying 8 turtlenecks at Conway.

What's your unbiased thought?

Until tomorrow.

Jai

33 Comments

Shane @ BeatingBroke.com link

1/17/2012 02:26:12 am

I don't know too many husbands who haven't had a similar argument with their wives! Now, my guess would be that the pink and turquoise turtlenecks are the wrong color, wrong size, wrong shape, etc. For you, the one she wants is the wrong price. So, you'll have to find a better compromise. Maybe the $20 turtleneck at Target is a better option, while still reducing the spent money.

One bright spot in all of this, at least you are talking about it!

Melissa link

1/17/2012 03:30:07 pm

You can actually get one at Target for the cool price of $12. I pick them up off the floor all day so I should know. :) And you knew who the winner was before you even wrote this post....lol.

Jai Catalano link

1/17/2012 02:31:18 am

Very good point and yes we are talking about it. In the end of the day I love her no matter what.

1/17/2012 02:39:25 am

Absolutely. But, make sure you emphasize the importance of the cape on the Superman glass. ;)

1/17/2012 03:22:24 am

Thank you for recognizing the importance. :)

Maya Torres

1/17/2012 03:08:21 am

Quality lasts longer so I'm with Vivian on this one...LOL

1/17/2012 03:09:46 am

I forgot to add that you guys look like movie stars even when you are casual, and where is this place? it looks beautiful. Being in NY stuck without a car makes me crave nature so much

1/17/2012 03:24:01 am

My My... I miss you. That is before we had kids... It's in 2008. That's why we look so good. 4 years later, 3 years of pregnancy, 2 kids, 1 wife, and 0 dollars makes uglier, older and grey...

jeffrey @ Saving Advice link

1/17/2012 03:53:46 am

heh -- boy does this all sound all too familiar. The way that we finally sorted it out was that we made a clothes budget for both of us and the other wa free to spend thier part of the budget however they liked with no complaints from the other. The same was true with the hobby budget ;)

1/17/2012 04:17:02 am

Glad to hear I am not alone.

maria@moneyprinciple link

1/17/2012 05:01:23 am

Guys, get a grip! Nothing beats a black, simple and stylish turtleneck. I will drink you bitches under the table t shirt? Bah!

Dr Dean link

1/17/2012 05:02:46 am

Ingenuity in your argument 9/10
Chances of your winning 0/10

IMHO
PS Jeffrrey's advice about the clothes budgets for each was sound.

1/17/2012 10:31:06 pm

My wife and I cracked up after reading your response.

Thad P link

1/17/2012 12:29:52 pm

I tend to agree with you, but were my wife to read this post, I am sure she would be on your wife's side!

1/17/2012 12:38:26 pm

It's funny how so many man are with me on this point and the women are getting violent. They can't control their emotions. It's only a turtleneck. :)

Aloysa @My Broken Coin link

1/17/2012 03:14:54 pm

Something gotta give and I think it should be your caped pint glass Jai. Black turtleneck is classy. Caped pint glass... not so much. :)

1/17/2012 10:30:06 pm

Can I keep the "you can't drink me under the table bitches" Tee?
:)

1/17/2012 10:30:15 pm

1/17/2012 11:30:07 pm

No!

Evan @ Smart Wealth link

1/18/2012 12:44:49 am

Well, like my wife always says when something like this comes up "there is a reason it is this expensive, feel the material". I look back after I felt the material and tell her that it feels exactly the same, then I get the disappointed look of "stop being so cheap"
The end

1/18/2012 01:02:18 am

It's like we are in the Twilight Zone. How do we get out??? :)

Amanda L Grossman link

1/18/2012 02:25:43 am

Well...I would never pay $47 for a turtleneck (or for a shirt, if I am to be honest). However, if it comes out of her own fun money, then it shouldn't matter. My husband and I each get some money that we allow the other to do whatever they want with. It's nice to have that freedom, and it alleviates arguments like these!

1/18/2012 02:41:58 am

Great point. However, we didn't argue. You see Colombian women don't argue they give their husband what is known as the Colombian Neck Tie. :)

Miss T @ Prairie Eco-Thrifter link

1/20/2012 02:14:34 pm

You can't go wrong with a black turtleneck. It's versatile and always looks nice- she could even wear it to work.

1/20/2012 11:50:31 pm

Well she won I lost. Women & their turtlenecks rule. :)

Crystal link

1/20/2012 04:10:23 pm

I'd suggest fun money budgets. Mr. BFS and I each receive $125 a month to spend or save as we wish...I no longer nag him about $50 video games and it allows me to feel comfortable splurging on trips to visit blogger friends a couple of times a year.

PS A black turtleneck may highlight her...ummm...assets - so isn't it technically a gift for both of you? ;-)

1/20/2012 11:51:45 pm

Well said Crystal. I like the monthly budget without worries idea. Thanks.

Super Frugalette link

1/20/2012 04:59:52 pm

I don't mind spending $$$, but I am pragmatic. I like to look at the CPW (cost per wear). If she wears 25 times a year and it last for 2 years, then it is roughly $1 each time she wears it.

If she buys the turquoise turtleneck. She might wear it once...because it is probably flimsy, poorly constructed, and not a flattering color. The CPW will be $5 if she wears it once, which is more than the CPW of the black turtleneck.

She will then have to go purchase the black turtleneck because the turquoise will not go with anything....total cost now...$52.

Also, if you ever go to counseling. It will cost you at least $50 to have your wife tell the therapist how you are not supportive of her purchases...if you let her purchase it...your cost savings is $3, since the turtleneck costs less than therapy.

1/20/2012 11:52:47 pm

This is the best response. I love it. Thanks.

101 Centavos link

1/21/2012 01:25:44 am

Just accept the fact that you will lose... :-)

1/21/2012 01:30:04 am

I already lost. :)

Six Figure Investor link

1/21/2012 01:35:07 am

As a future husband (very soon), I need to know how to handle this.
I'm with you Jai, buying something that will never been seen (it will be worn underneath something else) doesn't make a whole lot of sense.

If it shows and will be worn a lot, then quality does matter.

1/21/2012 02:03:15 am

I agree with you but if I were you I would delete your comment so your wife to be doesn't see the truth... :)

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