One day Jaxon was peeing on me when I was changing him and I yelled for Vivian to get me a towel while I blocked his super soaker. Vivian yelled back get it yourself I am busy. That experience taught me that no matter how much I love my kids I hate being peed on.
or the time that Anjali pooped on me and Vivian laughed until I asked her to help me clean up. She said YUCK clean it yourself. That experience taught me how to control myself from vomiting until I was able to get home and change my clothes.
or lastly the time that I asked Vivian to iron a shirt for me and she said iron it yourself I am not your mother. That experience taught me to appreciate that everyone gets old and there is nothing wrong with wrinkles.